Thursday, January 27, 2011

Shake a Tailfeather

I'm an internet junky and one the things I read a lot of are blogs about hair.

Of which this is not one. However, occasionally the blogs will pos something that is not hair related at all. Like this: sending a man a drink at a bar.

When I think about all of the bold things I've done to get a man's attention and keep it, the idea of paying for a drink and sending it his way doesn't come to mind, but why not? I'm bold, I look hot, I make eye contact, I put tick marks in all the boxes of the things that a bold woman would do, except this.

Sad to say I've not had a drink purchased for me in a while, in part because the crush of bodies at the bars I do happen to frequent doesn't lend itself to that and in part because I haven't been to a bar in a while.

I think that needs to change. Maybe I need to find better bars to go to, but to do that I would have to be willing to go to ANY bar. In the current state of dating, I think it's important to stand out from the crowd. Even looking different is no longer enough.

In a sea of birds of all different colored feathers the one that stands out is the one who steps in front of the crowd. I challenge my readers to be bold in their dating, to push beyond that status quo of boldness. Find ever more things that set you apart and don't be afraid to call the bartender over and send that guy you're eyefucking a refill on his Side Car or microbrew.

NotSamantha

45 comments:

Anonymous said...

Co jest potrzebne Tobe do szczęścia to znajdziesz szukając tego co jest pożyteczne dla wszystkich.

Anonymous said...

Yeah, meeting guys in bars is hard. Especially clubs where people are packed on top of each other. Honestly, I don't have an interest in meeting guys in places like that. But I found two things (shallow and not shallow) always stand out:

- Confidence; and
- White tops (white shirt + dark bar = stand out)

Clearly, I think way too much about this stuff.

Good luck!

P.S. In the big scheme of things, having someone buy you a drink has nothing to do with being special, but I know how you feel.

Aulelia said...

Thanks for linking to the post on my blog.

I think because society in general in many different countries puts the emphasis on men approaching women; it can be a nice change when a woman approaches a man.

escort services said...

We cater to all forms of Escort Services creating a virtual empire for the most basic of human needs which is companionship. Call us today and get more than what you bargained for.

Liza said...

Clearly, I think way too much about this stuff.
Mumbai escorts

Unknown said...

My opinion is a general one. I love in this blog all topics written by the blog author. Nice blog and nice type of expression. For my part for the blog author: I decorate him with twelve stars. Very nice blog.
0900 phone sex

Theresa said...

Oh wow, I just loved No Sex & the City. I am going to share this :)

sma said...

you have a new follower

kisses

www.dailysexandthelifecity.blogspot.com

Boost Metabolism said...

Many of us have attempted at least once to lose that extra weight which we don't like upon our bodies. Most people may not lose the fat while just a small number of people really will. You will find a listing of things which you need to change concerning your approach to dieting and exercise else you will not get the long term results which you have hoped for.

You should get the free ebook with 54 of the best weight loss tips at the blog BestMetabolismBoosters.com for more great advice that will help you.

Many people expect to lose weight quickly. You may need to change your attitude thinking about progressive changes to shed weight more slowly. It's difficult to think about weight loss being slow since almost every advertisement which you see about any fat burning program has individuals losing thirty pounds in a month very easily. A reliable exercise and diet program may lose one pound per week and it is a substantial amount of work.

One thing that you need to do for weight loss for now in addition to in the future would be to make simple adjustments to your eating as well as physical exercise. Habits are essential. Uncover changes which could end up being made to your workout routines and diet plan and put these into practice. It may end up being best if you select one new change just before moving to the next. This is actually the healthy and balanced alternative in comparison with various other kinds of dieting tips that you might have previously heard about.

Nainital escort service said...

Enjoy a lovely night with Nainital call girl and make your night pleasant. Meet with a horny call girl in Nainital for 100% sexual satisfaction. Our Nainital escort service agency provides sexy and busty housewife, college girls, airhotess, tvactress and more girls.

escort service in Nainital # Nainital escort service # call girl in Nainital # Nainital call girl

Hi, Guys..... Any males want fun and sexual satisfaction in Nainital please call or WhatsApp me. I'm 24 years old, from Nainital. Any male wants sex satisfaction I'm free at night to call me and hire me for 100% satisfaction. I will satisfy all types. What do you want I will do everything?

Escort service in Nainital said...

All play girls at Nainital Escorts and it shows in each picture provided on this site are beautiful and well-groomed girls. They look after themselves, look like models, dress well and are always in a good mood. All these qualities will automatically make a very nice girl prostitutes to provide escort services. Cheap or luxury prostitutes will behave correctly, have the right manners. But most importantly, after the end of the official part of a whore will plunge you into a sea of ??bliss, seduction, and passion. You can relax, take a break from formality and simply enjoy the ordinary human sex.

To become leaders in the field of Nainital Escort Service we were helped by a well-defined recipe: we connect the verbs "to conquer" and "seduce", adjectives "successful" and "inimitable", marinate in Nainital club life, warm up in sunny Mediterranean baths, relax in flights on superlayers.

Anonymous said...

I am UNIQUE, marvelous, honest to goodness, serious and locks in. Wherever is more pleasant with two so I would love to be your delightful, rich, blonde buddy on your arm as we eat up together around night time. Escort service in Ramnagar Every individual should be in the association of a stunning and flawless woman. This is the thing that the Ramnagar High-Class Ramnagar call girls is expected for and there is a wide arrangement of options available depending upon the necessities of the general population. Ramnagar escort service Ramnagar is beat camper interest and many individuals visit the spot for a huge amount of reasons. The wonderful magnificence of the spot makes it a great goal to value the escape and have the brave excursion for sheer excitement. Various people in like manner visit the site for business purposes and as a general rule contribute additional vitality than orchestrated resulting to coming to consider the diverse things it conveys to the table. The Independent Ramnagar Escorts refresh is predominant inferable from the vivid night life wore by the nation. Ramnagar escort Dazzling and hot young women party round the night and men are envision get in the association of such young women. This can be made possible via looking for Ramnagar Escorts who offers their organizations through online doors.

Unknown said...

The hot female’s profile that gets flashed on your screen will come up post typing of stylish Goa Escorts hot females. Now, for a really enjoyable sexual time, the client should make it a point of carefully going through profiles of the hot females.

Shagun said...

Mount Abu Escort Sexy Ramya is independent call girl in Mount abu and vadodara city since a decade and working as part time escorts in mount abu city. Get in touch with me for mount abu escorts service and daman escorts service.

Urvashi Dholakia said...

Hi Guys, This is the Goa independent escorts agency. I am Urvashi Dholakia from Goa escorts agency. You are searching an independent Goa escorts agency and we have adequate know-how presenting escort girls who accompany at every moment. We bring in the erotic pleasure and you get the inspiration to searching life in a new way with our escorts in Goa.
Goa Escorts

Spa Center Gurgaon said...

Great info! I recently came across your blog and have been reading along. I thought I would leave my first comment. I don’t know what to say except that I have.

https://spacenteringurgaon.com/

https://spacenteringurgaon.com/spa-center-in-gurgaon/

Dofollow

V I P Goa Dating Girls said...

Ponda Escorts
Mormugao Escorts
Sanguem Escorts
quepem Escorts
canacona escorts
Anjuna Beach Escorts
calangute beach escorts
varca beach escorts

V I P Goa Dating Girls said...

bicholim beach escorts
mapusa beach escorts
pernem beach escorts
siolim escorts
nerul escorts
vagatore escorts
margao escorts
Goa call girls
Goa call girls
Goa call girls

Bindu Sharma said...

Professional girls are considered best for spending some quality and peaceful time which is very effective in refreshing minds. Moreover, professional understand the need and desires of their clients. Thus, most of the people who have once hired these services often visit these escorts to achieving the utmost satisfaction and one of the reasons owing to which and nearby areas are very popular.
Parul Behl Mount abu escorts
mount abu call girls
Jaincy mount abu escorts
mount abu call girls
Damini Pandey mount abu escorts
escorts in mount abu
Mount abu angels escorts
Sehenaj khan mount abu escorts
Miss mount abu escorts

Bindu Sharma said...

Professional girls are considered best for spending some quality and peaceful time which is very effective in refreshing minds. Moreover, professional understand the need and desires of their clients. Thus, most of the people who have once hired these services often visit these escorts to achieving the utmost satisfaction and one of the reasons owing to which and nearby areas are very popular.
Nayra mount abu call girls
Vanishka jain mount abu call girls
Varsha chowdary mount abu escorts
Sexy hema mount abu call girls
Ramya mount abu call girls
Escorts service mount abu
Sexy bindu mount abu escorts
mount abu escort service
vip mount abu escorts
Call girls mount abu

Shagun said...

A reliable agency will never disclose its client’s details with any other under any circumstances. Hence, you can enjoy yourself to your fullest with the services offered by a trusted agency.
escorts service Abu Road
escorts service Abu Road
escorts service Abu Road
escorts service Abu Road
escorts service Abu Road
escorts service Abu Road
escorts service Abu Road
escorts service Abu Road
escorts service Abu Road

Shagun said...

A reliable agency will never disclose its client’s details with any other under any circumstances. Hence, you can enjoy yourself to your fullest with the services offered by a trusted agency.
escorts service Abu Road
escorts service Abu Road
escorts service Abu Road
escorts service Abu Road
escorts service Abu Road
escorts service Abu Road
escorts service Abu Road
escorts service Abu Road
escorts service Abu Road

Miss Ambaji Model said...

Sikar Escorts
Sikar Escorts
Sikar Escorts
Sikar Escorts
Sikar Escorts
Sikar Escorts
Sikar Escorts
Sikar Escorts
Sikar Escorts
Sikar Escorts

Miss Ambaji Model said...

silvassa escorts service
silvassa escorts service
silvassa escorts service
silvassa escorts service
silvassa escorts service
silvassa escorts service
silvassa escorts service
silvassa escorts service
silvassa escorts service

Miss Ambaji Model said...

kumbhalgarh escorts service
kumbhalgarh escorts service
kumbhalgarh escorts service
kumbhalgarh escorts service
kumbhalgarh escorts service
kumbhalgarh escorts service
kumbhalgarh escorts service
kumbhalgarh escorts service
kumbhalgarh escorts service

Miss Ambaji Model said...

daman escorts service
daman escorts service
daman escorts service
daman escorts service
daman escorts service

daman escorts service
daman escorts service

Miss Ambaji Model said...

saputara escorts service
saputara escorts service
saputara escorts service
saputara escorts service
saputara escorts service
saputara escorts service
saputara escorts service

Nayra said...

Enjoy the colorful nights with busty call girls and hot escorts available at Nayra Singh escorts agency in mount abu city. Explore our wide range of escorts available in escorts’ photos gallery.
Escorts in Vapi
Escorts in Vapi
Escorts in Vapi
Escorts in Vapi
Escorts in Vapi
Escorts in Vapi
Escorts in Vapi
Escorts in Vapi
Escorts in Vapi

Miss Ramya said...

Ramya Sharma is the best and can be the safest way to fulfill your desires if know how to choose the best escort service.
Call Girls balotra
Call Girls banswara
Call Girls rajsamand
Call Girls bhilwara
Call Girls bundi
Call Girls hanumangarh
Call Girls nawalgarh
Call Girls anand
Call Girls nadiad

Miss Ramya said...

Ramya Sharma is the best and can be the safest way to fulfill your desires if know how to choose the best escort service.
Independent Escorts in mount abu
Call Girls navsari
Call Girls khambhat
Call Girls jalore
Call Girls bharuch
Call Girls jaisalmer
Call Girls balotra
Call Girls banswara
Call Girls rajsamand

Shagun said...

A reliable agency will never disclose its client’s details with any other under any circumstances. Hence, you can enjoy yourself to your fullest with the services offered by a trusted agency.
missmountabu.com
nawalgarh escorts service - Miss Mountabu
anand escorts service - Miss Mountabu
nadiad escorts service - Miss Mountabu
ankleshwar escorts service - Miss Mountabu
kutch escorts service - Miss Mountabu
mundra escorts service - Miss Mountabu
gandhidham escorts service - Miss Mountabu
anjar escorts service - Miss Mountabu

Hema Sharma said...

Hema is a popular and trusted name in the field of call girl services. With a large selection of high-class babes in different categories, the agency will help you find your dream girl in just a few clicks.
sexyhema.in
Call Girls Service bhavnagar
Call Girls Service somnath
Call Girls Service veraval
Call Girls Service dahod
Call Girls Service kheda
Call Girls Service botad
Call Girls Service amreli

Shagun Verma said...

While looking for a reliable agency that offers the best services for sexual fun services in Mount Abu City then You must choose if the Shagun Verma is offering in-call and out-call services or not.
Escorts service mount abu
bharuch Escorts Service
lonavla Escorts Service
jamnagar Escorts Service
ajmer Escorts Service
dahod Escorts Service
jalore Escorts Service
porbandar Escorts Service
manali Escorts Service

Vanishka Jain sexy said...

Ahmedabad Escorts Services
Ajmer Escorts Services
Daman Escorts Services
Mount Abu Escorts - MissMount
Rajkot Escorts Services
Vapi Escorts Services
Mount Abu Escorts Services
Mount Abu Escorts Service -MountAbuAngels
Vapi Escorts Services
Mount Abu Escorts Services

Sehenaj said...

Meet beautiful call girls available in Ahmedabad with Sehenaj Khan Escorts Agency. We have a group of independent call girls working as a housewife collage girls and Russian girls in Ahmedabad.
Independent Call Girls
Independent nathdwara escorts
Independent saputara escorts
Independent bhachau escorts
Independent morbi escorts
Independent junagadh escorts
Independent surendranagar escorts
Independent bhavnagar escorts

Vanishka Jain sexy said...

Mount Abu Escorts Services - SexyBindu
Mount Abu Escorts Services- SexyRamya
Mount Abu Escorts Services- SexyHema
Mount Abu Escorts Services- ParulBehal
Mount Abu Escorts Services
Mount Abu Escorts Services
Mount Abu Escorts Services - NayraEscorts
Vadodara Escorts Services- Vanishkajain
Daman Escorts Services- VarshaChowdary
Vapi Escorts Services

Vanishka Jain sexy said...

kumbhalgarh escort service
kumbhalgarh escort service
kumbhalgarh escort service
kumbhalgarh escort service
kumbhalgarh escort service
kumbhalgarh escort service
kumbhalgarh escort service
kumbhalgarh escort service
kumbhalgarh escort service
kumbhalgarh escort service

Sunita said...

Hey friends I am Sunita Sharma working as call girl in mount abu and a free lancer call girls service provider in near mount abu small cities.
callgirlmountabu.com

Aarin Kaur said...

A real article for the time being. Great way to put together. Keep it up!.Mumbai Escorts

Pritusha said...

Escorts Service in Goa
Escorts Service Panjim
Escorts Service in Saligao
Passionate Escorts Service Candolim
High-Profile escorts service in Anjuna
Charming Calangute escorts
Sizzling baga escorts
Good-Looking Dona Paula Escorts
Top-Class Vagator escorts
Super-Sexy Morjim escorts

Anonymous said...

Our sensational Goa call girls are accessible for meeting your best requirements. In the event that you need 60 minutes, she will gladly give that to you. If you are in a need for the whole night, our groups of delights are anxious to please you. Do you require a date for travel outside of Goa? That is on the menu also and one of our enrapturing models will become an excited travel ally for you. At Bangalore call girls agency your desire is genuinely our longing. What's more that is the reason, we have the best Bangalore companion in the business. This is the reason why our elite customer base holds returning consistently.
We realize that men like you regularly like to prepare, however no one can really tell when one of our excellent women will be required for a decent time. That is the reason a minute ago dates are invited. As we stated, we are accessible 24 hours per day and 7 days every week so as to provide call girls service whatever requirements may emerge.

Teri billo said...

Perfect and High Quality Chandigarh Call girls
Follow us:-
Chandigarh escorts Blogger
Chandigarh escorts
Amritsar Call Girls

Cassanova said...

nice post!
https://www.cekaja.com/info/buah-dan-sayur-tinggi-kalori

Escort Service in Gurgaon said...

To remove your sexuality, Gurgaon is leading from Call Girls, you can take advantage of this service at any time in Gurgaon on our website.Call Girls In Gurgaon

Healthandfigure said...

kya aap bhi apne partner ko stasify hi kare paate hain toh aaj mein aapko time badhane wale condom kaun se hain uske baare mein btaunga jiske istmaal se aap aapne sex karne ki timing ke saath saath ek safe sex bhi kare payeng