Thursday, January 27, 2011

Shake a Tailfeather

I'm an internet junky and one the things I read a lot of are blogs about hair.

Of which this is not one. However, occasionally the blogs will pos something that is not hair related at all. Like this: sending a man a drink at a bar.

When I think about all of the bold things I've done to get a man's attention and keep it, the idea of paying for a drink and sending it his way doesn't come to mind, but why not? I'm bold, I look hot, I make eye contact, I put tick marks in all the boxes of the things that a bold woman would do, except this.

Sad to say I've not had a drink purchased for me in a while, in part because the crush of bodies at the bars I do happen to frequent doesn't lend itself to that and in part because I haven't been to a bar in a while.

I think that needs to change. Maybe I need to find better bars to go to, but to do that I would have to be willing to go to ANY bar. In the current state of dating, I think it's important to stand out from the crowd. Even looking different is no longer enough.

In a sea of birds of all different colored feathers the one that stands out is the one who steps in front of the crowd. I challenge my readers to be bold in their dating, to push beyond that status quo of boldness. Find ever more things that set you apart and don't be afraid to call the bartender over and send that guy you're eyefucking a refill on his Side Car or microbrew.

NotSamantha

9 comments:

Twój Grzech said...

Co jest potrzebne Tobe do szczęścia to znajdziesz szukając tego co jest pożyteczne dla wszystkich.

Lilly said...

Yeah, meeting guys in bars is hard. Especially clubs where people are packed on top of each other. Honestly, I don't have an interest in meeting guys in places like that. But I found two things (shallow and not shallow) always stand out:

- Confidence; and
- White tops (white shirt + dark bar = stand out)

Clearly, I think way too much about this stuff.

Good luck!

P.S. In the big scheme of things, having someone buy you a drink has nothing to do with being special, but I know how you feel.

Aulelia said...

Thanks for linking to the post on my blog.

I think because society in general in many different countries puts the emphasis on men approaching women; it can be a nice change when a woman approaches a man.

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