Wednesday, August 08, 2007

Parking in the rear...

I love that men magazines try to be about super manly things, but in the end still sound (look and feel) like the ladies mags.

However, there was one article that I was reading in Details this month, that was something I would never expect to find in a woman's mag. They were talking about anal sex.

*listens a feet scramble to leave blog*

Surprisingly, its not something I've thought about having myself. I've read about it plenty, but honestly never seriously given thought about doing it. But now that I've read this article and when I rethink what I have read about it, I've begun to wonder if it would be worth it.

In small anecdotes the article mentions how both men and women are turned on by the activity, but that for some the psychological issues for one of the guys in the article proved to be too much and he discontinued the activity, despite the fact that his girlfriend enjoyed it more than vaginal sex.

This is where I saw the breakdown for how men think about sex and how women seem to think about sex (at least with the information given in the article). The few guys mentioned were more concerned with the body's non-sexual reaction than the women and for them it seemed to be more about reclaiming dominance. But I'm wondering if the article explored everything (and not that I expected it to do so), but it would have nice if it would have gone into more detail than the 2 pages (with a glaringly obvious picture taking up 3/4 of one page) allowed.

Hmmm...maybe the next encounter I have will be rear parking only. For scientific (cough sexual cough) reasons only, of course.

6 comments:

HomeImprovementNinja said...

[in my joey trebiani voice]

How YOU doin ;)

Pele said...

If the nerve endings are there, go for it...

Then hit up Good Vibes or your friendly neighborhood sex toy shop and return the favor. ;)

al said...

I've always kind of found that it makes a girl feel naughty. You know "good girls" don't it. With the right partner, and the right mood, I think everything goes!

Ryane said...

well, you are a better woman than me. I have a motto for this question, and it. is.iron.clad.

Exit ONLY.

Roxy said...

Today I observed my first colonoscopy and I must say, it's really not that gross.

I've also had anal sex, and I wasn't particularly impressed. The only nerve endings for me were the ones signalling a bowel movement.

Valley Girl said...

Anal is great. I'm surprised with what the article said. Most guys and girls I know really enjoy it.

Def. recommend you try it. Just be sure to have some lube handy *wink* *wink*. Also, being drunk helps A LOT.