Saturday, September 23, 2006

Twitterpated.

So things are progressing with one of the matchmates. NotSmart (who will now be known as NotScruffy) has become the only person that I now communicate from that site. Well, actually he's the only guy I'm currently talking to, period. Over the past week we've talked every single day, for hours at a time. He's on a work trip across the country, so the time difference is a bit of a challenge to deal with (especially last night, since I stayed up until 4am talking to him on the phone) but it's given us a chance to get to know each other without the nervousness of actually meeting.
I think I'm starting to really like him. This is odd for me, since usually I need to see a potential date-mate in person to know if I want to date them. No, I'm not superficial, I can just "feel" vibes with someone. But with him it's different. Our phone conversation last night was two hours long, with no breaks in conversation. Of course, it did help that I was pretty tipsy, so I talked quite a bit, but I do believe that is more my style of conversation anyway. (Talking a lot, not acting like I'm tipsy).
He gets back early next week and we're already planning something fun for us to do. Be prepared because I do believe this blog will be my place of detailing every single thing that happens from here on out... kind of like how it's supposed to be anyway.

As for NotEmo, he's completely out of the picture. This dude was more of a girl than I am! He was whiny and such a complainer, I knew that we wouldn't "match." Hah.

13 comments:

Sex & Moxie said...

I love that feeling of havinhg a great phone conversation. Where the conversation flows and you feel that "click."

Good luck and ENJOY IT!!

Shannon said...

The ice has been broken, the conversation is flowing really nicely, so I imagine the face to face date should go really well.

Can't wait to hear all about the date.

trueborn said...

Yep.
Nobody likes a whiner.

jordan said...

I just dated a NotEmo this summer too.. I couldn't take it anymore. He didn't live in St. Pete, FL, by chance, did he? haha

NotCharlotte said...

S&M- thanks, i'll try :-)

Shannon- our first date is on friday... i'm so nervous!

Trueborn-word

Jordan- Not florida, but close. :-) maybe they're related...

Johnny said...

so, do you have a three dates before you wear a thong kinda rule?

just wonderin!

NotCharlotte said...

Johnny, I will never, ever wear a thong.

But I do have a 3rd date rule. I guess we'll have to see if I put it to use...

Karinaxoxo said...

That definitly would be weird - as if you have already had a few dates but without seeing each other...
You've seen pics though right?
Oh and good work in getting rid of the NotEmo

Ryane said...

haha. notEmo. I hope I didn't miss an important post about why he was called that b/c it is very, very funny. Good luck on the date...=-)

jo said...

i would love to hear you detailling every single thing that happens with you and notscruffy.

Haute Girl said...

nothing worse than a 'girly' guy! :)

Sandra Dee said...

Awww! Sometimes you click and sometimes you don't. Hooray for clicking! :)

Shannon said...

Don't say you're nervous. Instead, say you're excited! It'll help you feel more confident. You'll be fine :)