Tuesday, November 08, 2005

She came, she saw...she tried on a corset...

This weekend while NotMiranda was prepping for a night on the town with NotCarrie, NotCharlotte and yours truly I was making my way into the BDSM world. I started by going with my friend NotJackie to an event with her friend Notubergeek to a shadier side of the Capital for shopping and free seminars. It was a good way for me to get introduced to the one thing I've been contemplating since breaking up with NotSkippy, if I want to be truly honest I was thinking about it even before then.

I went, I saw and I tried on a corset. A lovely confection of black satin and red and pink cherry blossoms which can be mine for the economical price of $450...which I fully intend to shell out as a present to myself.

I also managed to buy some very nice shoes...okay they have 4 inch heels and are definately the ultimate in CFM wear, but I love them...they are so very very hot.

I also got to watch women who are not the model thin, and silicone enhanced of the porn movie realm drop trou and display themselves in front of audiences of 60 or more people for demonstrations. It was very liberating. I also got to see a shirt painted on using liquid latex.

More importantly I got to learn about a scene that most people don't give enough thought to. Its a very tightly knit group of people who are very comfortable with themselves and with the choices they've made sexually, which caused me to wonder. How often do we hold back asking for something we want in the bedroom because we think it wouldn't be widely excepted?

I'm kinky and part of discovering the kinkier side of my nature included going to this event and others and learning about what I want and don't want from my partner.

Now...all I have to do now is set up a 'play date'.

15 comments:

Kasper said...

Its good to explore the seedier side of life but always read the labels properly on S&M gear. When I first got them I put my studded leather underpants on inside-out - I was agony for weeks.

Incidentally do you see yourself more as a dominatrix or a submissive ??

NotSamantha said...

I'm a switch, though right now I lean more towards the submissive side. And since I'm still discovering what I like...

Although since I have a high tolerance for pain I've been told I would be fun to 'play' with...

Tommy the Cork said...

I simply love a girl in a corset. I especially love it when I find it under some otherwise "all business" clothing...especially like under a really impeccably tailored business suit. Whoa! Then there is the off glimpse of the lace top of thigh high hose under that same business attire...ahem. Of course, you really didn't ask me did you? LOL. Just wanted to give you a little glimpse of what drives some men crazy if you think there is any demand for more crazy men.

NotSamantha said...

Trust me, this corset is definately meant to tittilate. That and the sheer black thigh highs with bows I have planned to get with it...

Tommy the Cork said...

oh me...now just how am I supposed to get any work done today with that image plastered in my brain?

NotCarrie said...

I think corsets are hot, too. But I think I would get claustrophobic to have it super tight. I wish they would come back into style, though. Like Gone With The Wind style.

NotCarrie said...

Tommy The Cork-What happened to your blog?

Tommy the Cork said...

I got tired of it taunting me and reminding me that I was not posting anything...so I gave it a quick death and a respectful burial.

NotSamantha said...

An image of me in a corset...why darling do what my play date is doing...hope you have a back cubicle so no one will see your pup tent...

*smirk*

Tommy the Cork said...

Cubicle? My dear thou doest cut me to the quick. I have a whole corner office suite, with couches, bathroom, and everything...plenty of room to throw my tent.

NotCarrie said...

Should I leave you two alone?

Tommy the Cork said...

Heavens no! Don thy corset and join us!

NotCarrie said...

Sorry, I'm a fan of even numbers between 1 and 3:)


Prime numbers and anything sexual should not be combined. Words to live by.

Tommy the Cork said...

Prime numbers and anything sexual should not be combined. Words to live by.

Hmmmm...that would leave out 2 would it not? 1 is technically not a prime number because it has but the one factor...namely "1". But sex for 1 would virtually eliminate the value of the corset and stockings, I am 100% against that. 2 and 3 certainly are primes, but, well...are you certain those are words to live by? ;)

NotCarrie said...

See, I'm very hot right now. And NOT in the way this line of comments has been suggesting. It's feels like it is 100 degrees where I am, therefore I can't think straight. Ok, so the 2 thing was a mistake but I'm still against anything sexual involving prime numbers greater than 2. There ya go! And yes, I live by it:)