Monday, August 25, 2008

Its all about the Benefits, baby..

Okay so NotChrisRock got another date, at which time he took the kid gloves off and left me with a bite mark.

Which, turned me on so much I took off almost all of my clothing.

Thank god we were in his apartment.

And now the details for those of you who just did a spit take at your screen.

Last Thursday turned into date two for myself and NotChrisRock. We met on his side of town this time, to avoid the awkward "I don't have a car, but I'm legit conversation" that was still nagging in the back of my head.

We then proceeded down to a small shopping center where we fed my office supply addiction and then got coffee. We had initially decided to play it loose and just do things as they struck us, but that became real old really quick.

After coffee he suggested tv watching at his place, and while skeptical that tv is what he wanted to watch, I was confident I could fend off his paws, especially since Mother Nature had made her presence known that day. If there is one thing that will cool my ardor quickly, its having my period. I don't want kids and if this was fates way of telling me to just say no, I was going to stick to it.

So back to his place we went, where the idea of looking at tv got tossed after he kissed me and then bit me.

Did I mention I have this kink about biting...I like it...a lot.

I'm not to proud to say I became a semi posable goo in his hands...who immediately remembered that this would not be going anywhere in my current state of Cousin Flow.

So while deflecting his hands from below the waistline and trying to keep my wits about me, I finally stumbled out that he couldn't put his hands down my pants. To which he said:

"If you're on your period, I understand."

I blushed...this was not typical date conversation...at any time, but I soldiered on and confirmed that yes, there would be nothing doing in that area tonight, no matter how much he wanted to. Thinking I had cooled him down with my body's betrayal. No one was more shocked than me when he said...

"I'll just have to make you regret having your period."

I will go on record here and now and say, I have never regretted more being on my cycle than I did after that night.

But wait there's more. During the subsequent pillow talk after I was made to regret being on my period, I found that NotChrisRock and I may just have several more things in common, like the fact that neither of us is interested in being in a relationship right now. And that this should be very casual...friends with bennies!

Okay, so no love of my life, but a great friend with which to answer my bodies cravings, that's for sure.

11 comments:

Diane Mandy said...

Friends with benefits worked for me on occasion. SO long as you guys are on the same page and it's good--bravo!

dawn said...

it's always nice when those things work out for both parties. the key is that neither one of you has feelings for the other. have fun :P

SaneAndSingle said...

OOOh I so love to be bitten!! Most people who learn of that little fetish just don't understand! Well...until they are bitten! ;)

NotCarrie said...

Did you have your period? I wasn't sure;)

So is he close enough to come-a-running when you call or does this have to be set up in advance? Yay for friends with benefits. Good Luck!

NotSamantha said...

DM - Yes, being on the same page makes this loads more easy.

Dawn - Yeah, we've already figured out that there are no feelings there, but the fun must be had.

SAS - Being bitten is one of my easier kinks to get by most people. I had a nice little bitten neck to touch the next day.

NC - Yep, the painters are in, cousin flow be a visitin'. Nope, he's not close enough to answer my every beck and call, but that's okay. I've warmed up to the idea of going to his place, this way I can vacate when I want.

jo said...

you got me all hot by mentioning the biting haha!

yay for you if you've found something that you want...

teahouse said...

Hey, just stumbled across this site. Fun, fun!! I can't wait to read about your next date...

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Dater Boy said...

Ooh! I was bitten by a date just last week myself! But not in a turn-on sort of way. More in a rabid dog sort of way. Perhaps you could give her some lessons on how to do it right...

Pekky said...

Regretting having the period? Now, that's something! Looks like he made the experience enjoyable!

princessdominique said...

Hmmmm.