Sunday, June 24, 2007

Enough is Enough

I've had it with NotGraceful. You guys all know my problems in the past with him.
Last night, NotBigMouth invited us all out to a bar (one that's slowly becoming my favorite) and everything was fine and dandy until he showed up.
I decided to ignore him the entire time which, in hindsight, isn't the most mature way of handling things, however the only words I wished to exchange with him were ones that weren't too kind. Also, I didn't want everyone and their mother knowing my business.
It worked though, I didn't talk to him once over the course of the evening. That didn't stop him, however, from making condescending remarks towards me the entire night.
I sat there and realized that even if my friends wanted to hang out with him, I don't. I don't need that negativity in my life. He is the complete opposite of anyone I would want to hang out with, ever. He's pretentious about music, which is all he wants to talk about. He is constantly moody and when he tries to make funny comments, they fail. The only thing he's good at is getting drunk and acting like an idiot. Now that's funny.
I know this probably makes me a hypocrite, seeing as how I used to hook up with him, but I think that was before I knew better and had thought long and hard about this fucked up situation. It also helped to talk it through with a few people that weren't directly involved in this whole thing.
If people still want to hang out with him, then maybe they're not the kind of people that I should be hanging out with. From here on out, if he's going to be at a social event, I'm going to think long and hard before I go as well. I used to be of the mindset that I should have every right to go, even if the bastard's there, but now I just can't handle it. I've got too many good things going on in my life right now to have my good mood ruined by an unmotivated, uneducated, lazy asshole.


Senor Beavis said...

No offense, but when you're over him, you won't be taking your time writing about him, trying to convince us of that. The only way to be over something, as they said in Swingers, is that eventually it gets smaller and smaller until one day you just don't care anymore. OK, so that wasn't the exact quote, but same thing.

twg said...

Eh, I think you can be over someone and not necessarily be over how they treat(ed) you, or over the situation or the way things ended. Certainly there are people who I am technically over, but who I have no desire to see on account of the shitty way I was treated in the past and the resulting leftover anger involved. Just a thought.

NotCharlotte said...

Beavis: point well taken, but perhaps you don't understand the need for this blog. And my need for closure.

twg: You understand me :-)

Anonymous said...

Grow up and move on...please. It's not you guys were in a committed relationship...all he wanted from you was a warm place for his penis (Don't ever forget that)
Senor Beavis- I love the Swinger reference!

NotCharlotte said...

anonymous: I understand that, believe me, I do. It is still no excuse for him to treat me the way he does and it's also no reason for me to hang out with him any longer.

Anonymous said...

Jesus, you have blogged about this guy for so long, and it's completely pathetic. It's almost as though you keep bringing him up so people will never forget that you made out with this guy...perhaps teased him??? That's what it sounds like to me.

NotCharlotte said...

Anonymous: he happens to play a major part in the secrets everyone keeps talking about, so you may as well get used to hearing about more of him.