Thursday, March 01, 2007

Text me baby one more time

I finally ended my tawdry text relationship last week. NotAvailable was bloody hott and had me admitting my every fantasy, pushing all of the right buttons. NotAvailable had a girlfriend, though. I knew this right from the start and left my heart out of the matter. I also attempted to check my guilt at the door, telling myself she was just a girlfriend and should know her man better. The games we were playing, the excitement won out. I was on the verge of saying yes to the weekend in London when something made me pause. Something he said made me ask if his girlfriend lived with him. Turns out she had recently moved in. I ended it that day, telling him we couldn’t talk anymore. Call me hypocritical, but there is a level commitment you make to someone when you decide to live together. It’s more serious, something I couldn’t mess with. If I’m being completely honest, I was a tad sad when I realized it would have to end. Another reason that the timing to say goodbye was right. When you decide to play with fire and someone in a relationship, your emotions should be left out of it.

7 comments:

NotCarrie said...

Yeah, finding that out puts it to a whole other level. I think you made the right choice.

Harleyblue said...

You definitely did the right thing. If she was just some girl that's one thing but if she's living there, she's a lot more than just some girl. Men constantly surprise me. Do they not have a conscience?

Single guy blogging said...

Sounds like a real winner. BTW, is texting cheating?

Judy said...

I often wonder if they have a conscience too. A question I've been pondering a lot these days. Do they just check it at the door when they decide to engage in these sorts of things? Or are there other machinations at work that we just don't see?

NotMiranda said...

I think it is cheating, but I wouldn't come down any harder on him than I would on me. I also checked a lot of things at the door, so to speak.

al said...

I feel bad for the girl...here she is, probably thinking everything is fine, and her boyfriend is texting suggestively with someone else. Which means, their relationship isn't honest, and she just moved in. I think things will not end well!

Px said...

you did the right thing...i mean if you'd taken her place, whats to say he wouldn't do it all over again with someone else?
although heading to london could've been a winner ;)