Monday, March 26, 2007

It's Electric

You know those moments in books, when the author describes the electricity between a man and a woman when their hands touch, and it seems like one of those perfect moments where time sort of stands still for that split second? Have you ever had a moment that sort of seems like that, but then, after the fact, you're not sure if you just imagined it? Maybe the reality was one thing, but then your daydreaming self continued on inside your head.

I wish those electrical moments between a guy and a girl had the same reaction as a wintergreen lifesaver crunched in the dark. It would be nice to have an indicator, ya know? Because even when all signs point to affirmative, I'd still like a sign.

12 comments:

Anonymous said...

I've definitely had that *electric* moment that later fizzled either because the sex stunk or he said something stupid...lol...seriously - it's a fabulous feeling

Starboard Tack said...

I kind of think that the uncertainty of the "electrical moment" is partly what makes a real one very special (at least in retrospective)...

jo said...

i'm always looking for that sparkage. but maybe sometimes even having that doesn't mean things can work out...

Px said...

there is indeed a need for a sign, i mean i'm all for the subtle clues and signs that someone likes you, but i'm still a man, and as such i'm often blind to these hints and would prefer a big sign, preferrably in flashing neon

Roxy said...

I get that feeling anytime I see my high school love. I once thought I saw him randomly on the street and my heart started racing. It's a wonderful feeling!

Senor Beavis said...

In the autographed words of Jimmy Dugan (Tom Hanks) in "A League of Their Own," "Avoid the Clap."

lisa q. said...
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lisa q. said...

my luck it would a lot like the electric chair or a lightning bolt striking me down from the sky...'sides, signs are too damn hard to read unless they DO knock you on your butt...how 'bout just a sincere smile and a nice "i really like you...let's get to know each other better." simple and prolly much much safer...

NotCarrie said...

Princess extrordinaire- It IS a fabulous feeling!

Starboard tack- Yeah, I guess so. But I still wish it was more obvious when it happened.

Jo- Very true.

Px- I never realized how blind some guys could be (NotMiranda will laugh at this.)

Roxy- I have an old friend who still gives me butterflies when I see him.

Senor Beavis- Shut Up;)

lisa q- but so muh more scary!!!

Diva's Thoughts said...

I've had that expereince...Read my "Perfect Encounter" blog. It's an amazing feeling.

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