Friday, March 30, 2007

And the world's biggest cock tease award goes to...

So tonight’s date has been cancelled. He called last night when I got off because there was an emergency that popped up at work with a new project, and he is being flown to Maine this morning for meetings all weekend. Bust. He explains how disappointed he is. He then asks if I want to come over right now…share a drink. It was 1:00 am. I know what you’re thinking because I was thinking the same thing. Was this just a hook up? Was I sending the wrong message by going over there in the middle of the night? Screw it. I like this guy and was into the idea of some action. I took a deep breath and wrote down directions to his house.

(below is the series of emails I sent NotCarrie...much easier than trying to tell you the story any different way.)

I got there and refused to go inside until he told me he wasn't crazy. It was nice because we actually talked, and he didn't jump me right away. Also nice because we share similar viewpoints on life and interests. The second drink and he sits closer (I sat down first this time). All of a sudden, wham, he kisses me and we're making out on the couch. I become very aware that he has an erection and tell him I don't want to get him going too much...

...he's a good kisser and figured out pretty quickly I liked to be kissed on my neck. Anyway, he moves back into his personal space, and we talk some more. Pretty much the rest of the night is this push-pull thing of making out and me keeping him at bay from taking it further. We were in the kitchen and (blush) he pretty much puts me on the counter. I couldn't let that go on for long because it was too hott and would have went south fast....

When we're headed back to the couch after the kitchen he comes up behind me and pulls my hair a little. Also kind of hott. Am going to skip what he did next but, again, he was held at bay (too bad because it was really nice). I told him I needed to leave by 3, and he kept saying I needed to stay. I told him we weren't doing this tonight. Said what would he think of me. Seriously, I like this guy and didn’t want to be the easy lay. Maybe I am old-fashioned ; ) He gets all excited because he says he has the perfect song. He goes running off to his car to grab it, only to come back empty handed. He tells me it's this Andre 3000 song about the girl worrying what the guy would think and the guy thinking she just knew what she wanted, blah, blah. Anyway, his ploy to get me to stay.

He says I have to at least come up and see his quarters. I knew this was a bad idea but went anyway. What the hell. I like house tours. Anyway, he pushes me up against the wall and eventually the bed for more kissing. Only problem is that on the bed I can definitely feel a certain something wanting make a grand entrance. He was more persistent, and I'll admit harder to resist. Part of me was about to go for it. However, I didn't. I pushed him off and got up. Told him I had to leave and that it was hotter to leave him wanting. Hahahaha. I told him I wanted him to be hard all day today because he didn't get any. Yes, I'm a bitch. Poor guy could barely make it down the stairs. A few more requests to stay, and I made it out the door and home. We'll see if he calls ; )

12 comments:

notparis said...

OMG, girl that sounds hot!! I am sooo jealous.

The Diva's Thoughts said...

Good for you girl!!! If you had slept with him chances are he would not be interested in you much longer. Good for you!

MARFSBABY said...

That was HOT! And yaaayyy, good for you! When you give it up way too easily they truly don't respect and rarely come back for seconds. So I invented the five date rule... it's a simple concept but hard as hell to do...I think I'll blog about it today myself - good subject!

Princess Extraordinaire said...

MAN - you got ME wanting foreplay fun! I am so proud of you for resisting the innate urge to jump the hottie and take it all the way home. He'll be back for more!

twg said...

//and would have went south fast....//

In every sense of the word!

:) Just delurking ... great story and I think you made the right move.

CarmenSinCity said...

DAMN!!!!! I'm so jealous. I miss foreplay. Hell, I miss sex - I miss kissing. It's been way too long.

I'm glad for you though.

I hope he calls!

allan said...

Speaking as a guy, that's the right move. He will absolutely call :).

lisa q. said...

wow! hot hot hot...and damn impressive! you go girl!

Mela said...

yeah, I'm so jealous I kind of don't like you right now. but the non-jealous side of me is giving you a high-five. You were straight with him about what was and wasn't going to happen and you didn't cave. That's HOT and smart- he'll be back for more if he knows anything about anything- oooh, what if you kept him at bay a little longer, a few more dates? Make him work for it. That's HOT.

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CoatMan said...

You tease, you :-p

"I pushed him off and got up. Told him I had to leave and that it was hotter to leave him wanting. Hahahaha. I told him I wanted him to be hard all day today because he didn't get any."

That's rather sweet: it says that, although you're playing games with him, you're playing (naughty but) nice games with him and that he's in on them. Still - you tease :-p

Ally said...

I know I must be getting old b/c as I read this post I kept thinking "What a pushy, disrespectful guy."