Wednesday, April 12, 2006

Someone Must Get Hurt

So this thing with NotMarine is a no-go. I had a realization this week that i'm just not that into him.
How "no sex in the city" of me.
So i emailed him cancelling plans for Thursday. I didn't hear from him for a bit, then realized he took me off his friends list on myspace. I then started wondering what the hell was wrong with me, that he'd start ignoring me.
I'm such a hypocrite, but it's true.
I was getting ready to break it off with him, then when he does the ignoring thing that i'm famous for, i get pissed off about it!

I'm such a bitch sometimes.

Anyway, he's talking to me again and now i feel bad because inevitably, i don't want to go out with him again. I don't have a reason other than the fact that i can't see myself in a serious relationship with him. And i know that he can. It sort of scares me, that after only 3 dates he wants a "serious relationship."

Such is life.

8 comments:

jo said...

yeah even though i may not be interested in the guy, i get pissed off when he starts ignoring me. but sometimes that's better for both parties. ignore each other until everyone forgets.

Anonymous said...

That is really stupid and petty. When you don't like someone, you should be happy if he is ignoring you. Get over the egos, and grow up.

NotCharlotte said...

Jo: Yeah, I nipped it in the bud last night and we're not going to hang out anymore.

Anonymous: Thanks for stating the obvious.

NotSamantha said...

The double edged sword of dating. We want to be the one they want to date, but only if and when we want to date them, if they come outside of that then they lose. Even more annoying is if the same rules become applied to us. You live and learn NC...

reluctant dater said...

i feel your pain...i just realized that i had been blocked on a certain someone's IM...i know he doesn't have another screen name because it's an internal company IM system and you can't change your name. he hasn't logged on in weeks, and he's unable to not be connected, so i'm blocked. just pissed i didn't do it first. and it's not even like i ever talked to him, anyway. ahole.

Ivy said...

De-friended on myspace? Harsh. Oh well...on to the next one!

Downtown said...

It is always slightly upsetting to find you've been defriended... but usually only because you wish you'd thought of it first.

Lesson for next time.

TheBarmaid said...

I think this is also part of the thing with online dating. It's like everyone online is so earnest about wanting a serious relationship you feel bad if you don't.