Saturday, January 07, 2006

Tiny Spark

So last night I had a date with NotGuitar. I would consider this the "second date" since last Friday it was mainly he and I talking to each other as I was trying to fend off advances from NotHusband.

It was one of those impromptu dates, with not much planning. We decided on a place and time to meet, but that's about it.

There was a lot of walking around the city, one of my favorite things to do. And four hours of talking. And a little arm/leg touching. And "eye giving." Which is good.

Minimal breaks in conversation. We spent most of the time reminiscing about Europe and telling funny stories. I'm not nervous around him, which is a good thing.

However, yet again I have backed myself into the "friends or more" corner... why are men so hard to read?

It's hard to talk a lot about this because I'm not done figuring it out in my head. We hugged as I was leaving though. He's a good hugger.


NotCarrie said...

Hugs are good.

We're all waiting for an update, too!

Fraud and Robbery said...

Your post reminds me of the Seinfeld episode: Avoiding the awkward pause. Dates are great until the awkward pause sets in.

NotCharlotte said...

Yes, i have to agree: the awkward pause does suck.

Fortunately, there were only a few of those and they weren't until the end of the evening after we had talked for hours.