Monday, October 10, 2005

"Be My Friend"

I think I get "Be My Friend" crushes. I encounter certain guys and there is something about them that makes me want to have them be a part of my life. I love having a lot of guy friends and I'm not sure if it's the "big brother" aspect of it or just because guys seem to be a lot less petty than girls. I'm not sure sometimes though if I have a real crush or a "Be My Friend" crush and then I don't know how to go about getting that person in my life. In some cases I find myself going back and forth between making eyes at someone and having a friendly conversation (not that a friendly conversation doesn't go with a romantic prospect). This is on my mind because at the moment I know someone who I want in my friends list. I'm not trying to flirt with him but at times it just happens and then I get confused which kind of crush I'm having.

I hate being confused.


NotMiranda said...

This made me chuckle quietly in my cube...partly because I know exactly who you're talking about : ) I know what you're talking about. I don't know if I'd call them crushes (for me), but I do sometimes just click with people and hope that we can be friends. As for these "friend crushes" with guys, is it bad that I wouldn't necessarily want the female baggage that sometimes comes along with them?

Miss Scarlet said...
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NotCarrie said...

Oh I most certaintly do NOT want the female baggage of this case. It seems like it would be messy for some reason. But maybe it's because I am already paranoid she knows I have a "Be My Friend" crush.