I think the latter only works if you're in a long-distance relationship. Otherwise, what if you're growing fonder and they're growing fond of someone that's right in their sight?
I shouldn't be discussing this right now as I'm not in a correct state of relationship-mindedness.
I'm a big believer in the you don't see it it doesn't exist way of thinking. Especially when its something you want but can't/shouldn't/don't want to have.
I'm usually a combination of both. At first, I'm all about "absence makes the heart grow fonder". In fact, (and I hate to admit this) sometimes I really dig the guys that are harder to get. However, after awhile my attitude triumphs, and I push the person right out of my mind. If you can't make time for me (even virtually), then get to steppin'.
Both suck.
ReplyDeleteI think the latter only works if you're in a long-distance relationship.
Otherwise, what if you're growing fonder and they're growing fond of someone that's right in their sight?
I shouldn't be discussing this right now as I'm not in a correct state of relationship-mindedness.
I'm a big believer in the you don't see it it doesn't exist way of thinking. Especially when its something you want but can't/shouldn't/don't want to have.
ReplyDeleteI think being without something you usual have, or at least usually know you can get your hands on, makes you want "it" even more.
ReplyDeleteBut what do I know?
I'm usually a combination of both. At first, I'm all about "absence makes the heart grow fonder". In fact, (and I hate to admit this) sometimes I really dig the guys that are harder to get. However, after awhile my attitude triumphs, and I push the person right out of my mind. If you can't make time for me (even virtually), then get to steppin'.
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